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Baby Talk #1: MBLAQ Become Daddies

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Written by On February 1, 2012

With MBLAQ starring in season 5 of Hello Baby many A+’s hit the roof. Even I, a casual fan of MBLAQ, was excited. Who wouldn’t be, it’s the ultimate fangirl fantasy. Your favorite dancing and singing boys taking care of children, you can’t deny biology.

That being said Baby Talk is a venue for all the fans out there to spazz  discuss the episodes.

A quick recap of the first two episodes.

  • The boys were given various missions to try the children. Which led to kidnapping the kids..
  • Mir thinks Lauren will be his ideal type. You better watch that mouth or Chris Hansen will be at your doorstep soon.
  • Leo’s Dad is really cute and French. Rawr
  • Since the boys are given three kids, it’s been a challenge trying to give them equal attention
  • MBLAQ tries to teach the kids manners, interesting to watch with the differences in cultures
  • Dayoung is not impressed by Joon’s muscles.

What are your thoughts? Feel free to spazz or engage in enlightening discussion below.

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  • YesNo

    The show is just okay so far, I was pleasantly surprised to see how fatherly SeungHo is. Maybe because he’s older & the leader, I think he brings a certain level of maturity to the show. I can see him being the “Minho” of this season so to speak. And I absolutely HATE the Dayoung vs. Lauren thing that the producers are trying to play up, it’s really the only thing keeping me from regularly tuning in & fully enjoying the show. 

  • Anonymous

    So far I love this season. Maybe it’s just me, but Hello Baby is much much better with boy group haha. Like the others have said, while SeungHo is just like Minho, G.O feels like he’s channeling Key (with less ‘umma’, I must say). 

    And yeah, the whole Lauren vs Dayoung thing… meh. I never really like the subtitles on Korean shows cause most of the time, they tend to make a simple thing becomes so over-dramatic. And that happened too in Hello Baby, especially whenever Dayoung pouts.

  • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

    Ok so I know everybody is spazzing about how Seungho supposedly makes a good dad, but I really don’t think so at all, he chose the least problematic child and gives 90% attention to her, the only part that I thought he was good with all of them was when they were watching Pororo on the computer and even then his biggest reaction was towards Lauren. Also, I don’t think Lauren is as attached to him and he is to her, he’s one of those baby hoggers who gets a bit infatuated with a cute kid and follows them around the baby is always not even half as attached as the adult in those cases. 
    G.O is doing a really good job with Dayoung, I hate how the producers make it seem like Dayoung and Lauren are against eachother because G.O hardly even neglected Dayoung he came right back to her after he took Lauren into the pool. He’s really gentle with all the kids and is putting the most effort into bringing Dayoung out of her shell.
    Joon suprised me, he seems to have the most natural instinct for being a dad of the lot, it was suprising how he managed to adapt to each child and what they need from him, Lauren doesn’t need much because she’s naturally so social, he knew exactly how to deal with Leo (I don’t think a spank on the butt was bad at all, and it’s good that there is a disciplinarian dad figure who demands a bit more respect and manners from the kids) and he was really sensitive to what Dayoung needed from him, he tried to get her to come in the pool and when she didn’t he stayed with her which was sweet.
    Cheondung is adorable, he’s like the sweet big brother and he was so cute when he tried to teach Dayoung to bow using the doll, he properly tried to think like a child it was really sweet, and he’s constantly giving reassuring words to all the kids and patting them on the head, I think he could possibly help Dayound open up a bit, along with G.O and Joon, because he’s so shy himself.
    And Mir, he’s just a baby, now I don’t think he’s a pedo or anything but he just goes right in with Seungho he favoritises Lauren a lot, but he is a bit better because he does give a lot of attention to the other two but he tends to give up with Dayoung really quick probably because like he said, she’s too ‘chic’ for him to know what to do with her, he’s a kid maybe he’s scared of doing the wrong thing?
    I think at the end of it Joon, G.O and Cheondung are doing the best job, and G.O and Joon compliment eachother quite well with the Dad/Mum roles, like when Leo was upset G.O calmed him down before Joon came to apologise, that part made me laugh a bit because I’ve seen that with a lot of parents and their babies it was cute ^__^
    Hoping Seungho starts to put in a bit more effort with the other two kids, and that Mir will grow up just a little bit, although his role as the fourth baby on this show is really amusing.

    • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

      Um…I ranted a bit, I’m sorry lol that was long…

    • Meanie

      I agree, especially about Seungho, hopefully he can spread the attention around to the other children.  I do hate the fact that the producers are pitting the girls against each other, it’s turning me off to the show. Also with Dayoung you can tell her a Lauren get along because they were holding hands and playing in the first episode and holding hands going down the stairs to the swimming pool, they need to show the kids interacting more with each other too. 

      One more thing, I hate the commenter’s on youtube bashing a 3 year old child, really people?!  Go have a seat—————————-> __

      • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

        I’m really shocked at the amount of people saying Seungho makes a good dad, ok cool if you want a dad who favoritises so much =/ I was really disappointed by him because I had high expections, but then I was pleasantly suprised by G.O, Joon and Cheondung so whatever about Seungho now, but all the praise he’s receiving is a bit ridiculous.
        I get annoyed at the captions too, but Lauren’s dad tweeted a photo of them playing together so I’m pretty sure that Dayoung and Lauren get along, the mblaq dads need to learn to create bonds between the kids I think that’s one thing they’re just not doing and it’s important especially for the kids to feel more comfortable on set. If Lauren and Dayoung got closer for example, Dayoung would be more willing to do things that the guys ask when Lauren does it because she’ll feel more trusting of the dads. I think I’ve been around too many children myself so I sitting here judging so badly whenever the guys do something wrong lol
        The bashing on youtube is ridiculous!! These are 3 year old kids and they’re all adorable. And oh my goodness, people picking favorites out of the kids?? These are children they’re not like you’re favorite kpop group where you pick a bias O_o

        • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

          Also, did you see how Seungho got all jealous that Lauren wanted to G.O to read her letter?? He totes wants her for himself he gets jealous that a 3 year old wants to become close with the other members?? Come on X__X Lauren happily leaves him like when she gave him the scrubbing thing in the pool and then swam away lol I kinda hope she starts giving a lot more attention to the other guys so he learns to give more attention to the other kids.

        • LuvFades115

          Yeah the commenters on youtube really bothered me too, there was one comment saying how Lauren gets all the attention because she is somewhat superior to Dayoung because she models,sings, and she’s cute and you can’t blame them for giving her all the attention and that people shouldn’t being referring to any of the memebers as bad fathers. *sigh* I don’t get why I even bother reading youtube comments sometimes…just sickening.  When I read that I was like why does a three year old child need to know how to sing and model and worry about her looks? I mean it’s nice that Lauren can do those things but its not all that important, at least not at her age. Dayoung has plenty of time to learn how to do those things, and probably could be just as good as Lauren at them if she was taught. But right now she is three years old, why is Lauren superior for being able to do that, when most three year olds aren’t doing that, heck even Lauren would probably much rather be playing like any other child than doing those things that supposedly make her superior to Dayoung…I just found that comment disgusting.

          But anywway I haven’t been able to watch the second episode yet but I heard about the Lauren vs Dayoung thing and found it rather sad honestly, and I hope the show does not try to hype that up any further for the kids sake, epecially Dayoung…I kinda feel bad for her at the moment.

    • jess1

      I understand how Seungho gets all the “praises”. I think though, that they just find him adorable with all the aegyo he’s been showing on Lauren because we gotta admit, that man is very cute when he’s being cute. I don’t know if we can already call him good but he knows how to take care like the Pororo ‘lesson’, when he sang the Frog song as Lauren was ‘performing’, and how he found a way to make Lauren come to the water. I feel like he still doesn’t know how to take care of a shy and reserved girl like Dayoung and we don’t expect him/them to be. He tried but it was not enough. Hope he tries harder in the future. He is fine with outgoing kids like Lauren and Leo because he doesn’t need to put any effort. I think he’s afraid of getting ‘rejected’. He said there are no girls in his family, and I believe he once said before that even his cousins are all boys or pretty much all of them. So he got this really outgoing, pretty kid, and he’s just a happy guy who once wanted to be a young father. Perfect for him. I just want him to pay attention to Dayoung more also. He and Leo have bonded already so I guess they will be fine.

      As for G.O, I agree with him that he has to make Dayoung be comfortable with the other members, but I wish he didn’t leave her sooner. Even at the pool, he could have gone out like what Joon did. But you can see how he’s also wanting Lauren’s attention. Nothing wrong with it, but I was disappointed that he “gave up” on Dayoung easily. 

      Joon and Cheondung (esp. Joon) surprised me the most. He gave attention to Dayoung when no one was and while everyone was paying attention to Lauren only. I think he didn’t try his best because like all of them, they were ‘afraid’ of getting rejected or if they put more effort, Dayoung might cry, and I don’t think boys (yes, they are boys) can handle that or want that.

      The only thing I dislike so far is how the show is pitting Lauren and Dayoung against each other. Hopefully, that doesn’t continue on to the next episodes. We all want for all the members to get close to every kid.

      • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

        Yeah I see what you, people love it when Seungho goes all ‘aeygo man’ too much and considering Lauren is bringing that out of him 110% I can see everybody is loving it and just says he’s the best dad ever. I do wish he would try harder with Dayoung, I think he has the best personality to try with her tbh because he seems to be quite a firm and assertive person, I feel like that’s what she needs, someone who’s going to be more assertive with her. But then I see what you mean they’re all a bunch of boys and are scared of getting rejected by the little 3 year old girl lol.
        Yeah I really thought G.O should have gone out of the pool to get Dayoung, or if anything Joon should have picked her up and bought her into the pool, I highly doubt she would have been upset, I’ve seen loads of kids with her persoanlity where if you’re just a bit more assertive towards them they get happy, I feel like she just didn’t know who to go to to get in the pool seeing as G.O has already “betrayed” her, if you get what I mean? I think at that point G.O was a bit tired of trying and just handed the reins over to whoever else to have some fun with Lauren instead.
        Joon was really suprising, honestly I’m still shocked at how good he was at trying to handle that, but like you said he could have tried just a tiny bit harder and could have gotten some results.
        Honestly putting the kids against eachother is so ridiculous, one of the goals should be to bring the kids closer together and form a bond between them, but the producers seem to just want drama instead, and really this show can stand on it’s own without creating drama between some babies, that’s just lame and unnecessary.

  • lin-chan

    So far, I like MBLAQ’s Hello Baby. It’s like any other Hello Baby: cute. The babies are cute, the boys are cute, and together just create this atmosphere of cuteness, even if it’s overwhelming at times. It helps that the members each bring their own personality. I know that fans have been comparing it to Shinee’s Hello Baby, but I don’t think that’s fair. Sure, Shinee’s HB was cute too, but MBLAQ’s HB is a little different because of each member’s own personality.

    If anything for this season, I hope that the babies will play with one another, interact with children their age, rather than always playing with MBLAQ. I understand the point: the entire show revolves around MBLAQ’s interactions with the children, but I think that interaction could be better if the children also interacted among themselves. Then, could the MBLAQ’s HB truly be about global harmony.

    • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

      That is one of my main issues so far, is that instead of trying to form bonds between the kids, they’re creating a drama between them already. It’s not as if a bond between the kids will even affect mblaqs screen time, as they would be the ones helping the kids get closer. I’m sure if the kids were closer then they would also feel more comfortable on set and the show would become even more enjoyable.

      • lin-chan

        Agreed! :D

  • http://twitter.com/YunTiHa YunTi Ha

    I think it is still too early to be judging each member and how they treat the babies based on what was aired. I’d give it some time before I decided who did a better job… But after reading all the comments I do have to agree on the whole Seungho thing. It’s super cute how he interacts with Lauren but I really do fell like he neglects the other two. I wouldn’t go as far to say that he isn’t a good father, but I just feel like he doesn’t truly know how to deal with kids just yet. Lauren is not only the least problematic one and but he was the one that found in the first episode so they are automatically closer to each other. That I understand. It really does annoy me though because Seungho is my ultimate bias and I really to hope to see him getting closer to Leo and Dayoung. 

    On a side note…I don’t want to seem mean, but I was truly disappointed with the quality of this article. Maybe the author just wanted to know our opinions, but sometimes I feel like the author needs to state their opinion before we start adding our two cents. Its sad when the comments are better read than the article itself. I come to Seoulbeats because I like their sarcastic sense and their personal opinions in the article. And when I saw that SB did an article on MBLAQ’s Hello Baby I was excited to see what SB had to say about it. I was nothing but disappointed when all this was was bullet points of what happened in the first two episodes. Honestly I can get that anywhere. I will still come to SB, but I hope they will publish better thought out articles rather than just articles with bullet points…

    • Nabeela

      Actually, the point of Baby Talk is to follow the Hello Baby Season, update our readers with a small recap on the current episodes, and allow for a platform through which readers can squeal and giggle in our comments section, just as authors as ourselves immediately do after current episodes.

      Be sure to look out for our analysis versions of Baby Talk if you are interested in more in-depth explanation and commentary! 

      • http://twitter.com/YunTiHa YunTi Ha

        I guess I was just disappointed because I was expecting a longer article about Hello Baby…rather than very brief bullet pointed article with facts that I already knew about…I understand that this is to update those who might have not watched Hello Baby. I’m sorry if I offended anyone. This is really just my own opinion and I by no means want to dis the author or Seoul Beats.

  • Anonymous

    Hmm, maybe I´ll check it out. Where can I watch the show?

    • jess1

      YT user/mblaqhellobaby

      • Anonymous

        Thank you :-))

  • http://twitter.com/arigatomida jesse

    Seungho Lauren FTW <3<3<3

  • http://twitter.com/amyjean92 Amy Jean

    I was a little concerned with the amount of attention Lauren seemed to be getting from the others compared to Dayoung (and at one point I seriously questioned if it was because she’s half white and Dayoung isn’t since I saw some comments on YT justifying the amount of attention she gets because she’s “prettier”) but then I realized that a lot of this is scripted and edited to make it look bad, when it might not even be that serious. If someone hadn’t pointed out that Dayoung finally bowed and Thunder affectionately caressed her head afterwards, I would’ve kept believing the whole unfairness between the two girls. As much as I am crazy about Seungho (I refer to him as my husband sometimes xD), his parenting skills were not all that. G.O. impressed me much more with how he was able to give all three of the kids some attention. Again, maybe it’s how the show has been edited to make us think certain things but based on what I’ve seen, G.O. and Thunder make the best fathers. But I’m eager to see how the other guys improve and get closer to the kids. This has been quite an interesting Hello Baby so far. :)

  • VeryCuticle

    i love mblaq’s hello baby Joon &Thunder are stealing a special place in my heart<3

    idk the only thing that pisses me off is the Dayoung/Lauren rivalry they got goin on it's pissing me off. idk if they really are giving Lauren more attention than Dayoung (show editings are horrible i know) but if they are doing favoritism b/c Lauren is "prettier"  it's kinda sad:(  i just hope Dayoung can open up more she's so shy and so cute esp. when she went to wake up the mblaq members she was like the lil ring leader lol

    • whatthefrell

      I know, they really need to watch it there.
      Children are very receptive; and for a child
      as obviously sensitive as Dayoung,
      she knows what’s up.
      They need to stop that.
      I understand what GO said
      about Dayoung needing to feel like
      she can go to all of them;
      but sometimes, some children,
      just need a little something more,
      than others.
      I am so hoping they figure it out soon.
      Kudos to Joon for making the effort,
      and spending that extra time with her,
      for which he was rightfully rewarded,
      with her trust.
      Awesome episode;
      I love them!

      • VeryCuticle

        MTE

  • Katherine

    Clearly the major turn off for this Season of Hello Baby (so far since it’s still early) is the whole Dayoung vs Lauren aspect that the PD’s of the show seem to find “entertaining”. I don’t understand the angle they are trying to come in on with making it come across as some sort of love triangle between the two girls and G.O. – Its just weird, because you can catch glimpses of the girls playing/holding hands with one another so clearly they like each other. The PD’s need to move on from this supposed “rivalry”.
    As for the children I thought Leo would be a lot harder to control but after that incident with Joon where he laid his foot down, he seems to get along really well with all the boys and listens to them as well. (I can’t help but go gaga over him whenever I see him with Thunder or Joon.)
    Lauren is the “golden child” the one that everyone flocks/adores and that isn’t her fault at all, I love seeing her interact with each of the members as well.
    Dayoung is going to take a lot of work. I’m curious as to why she was so loud/out-going when she had to wake the boys up but then as soon as they were all gathered together she went back into her little shell. I couldn’t help but tear up abit when they were putting on their hanboks, the look on her face was heartbreaking as well as when they were at the pool and she would only look at G.O. I’m really hoping the boys will rally together and begin to break down Dayoungs inner walls.
    As for the boys Seungho – on one hand I can see why he favors Lauren the most, she is the easiest one to handle and is non-fussed plus I feel he is more attached to her since he was the first one to find her. I really want to see him put more effort into sharing his attention with the other two kids as well.
    G.O – Can’t fault him so far, the way that he handles each child and goes to their level has me admiring him and also his thoughts when its just solo interviews are quite insightful into what he thinks he needs to do etc.
    Thunder – Out of all the members you can tell he connects the most with these children because of his own background of having been raised overseas etc. I loved that he used Dayoungs doll to demonstrate how to do a bow, he is Leo go to man & Lauren has also warmed up to him. Using his own experience definitely gives him the advantage here I think.
    Joon – I don’t know about everyone else but I like the fact that Joon has a very strong mindset on discipline. For me that is one thing I don’t get with parents that don’t discipline their children. You can tell he would be a strict father but also have this affectionate/warm side to him. I give him props for deciding to stay with Dayoung whilst everyone else was having fun, he put in so much effort into trying to comfort her and that gets a 10 out of 10 from me.
    Mir – I feel like he is another kid as well lol. I will admit when he said Lauren would be his ideal type I had a “WTF” face on. BUT besides that I feel he needs to be more assertive/active as well.
    Its only been 2 episodes but so far I’m enjoying this, I’m hoping that as the Season goes on that the bond between the kids and the boys grow stronger ^^.

    (Didn’t realise how long my rant was until now. BUT just wanted to say I miss Yoogeun lol.)

    • whatthefrell

      “I couldn’t help but tear up abit when they were putting on their
      hanboks, the look on her face was heartbreaking as well as when they
      were at the pool and she would only look at G.O.”

      I know, heartbreaking indeed.
      I was so relieved that they finally got it together;
      afterwards, Dayoung looked just as adorable,
      and you could tell she felt much better about things.
      I loved how at the end of this episode,
      they all bowed properly, including Dayoung.
      That was awesome!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_FS52P3WGP37JJ6YJNRLPPBVS4E A

    I worked in a daycare before, so every reaction that the members are having toward the children are reactions I have seen before by various teachers/volunteers/parents. (and, let me tell you, these kids are ANGELS compared to some I have seen before).

    Many have already expanded on what I wanted to say so I’ll just summarize my thoughts (actually, a lot of the youtube comments are pretty insightful… you know, for youtube :D ):

    -GO, Joon, Thunder actually seem like various versions of real dads
    -Mir and Seungho are like an older brother and uncle respectively

    This is the first time I dont find myself irked at the show for any reason. Maybe it’s because these kids (who look like they dont have siblings) need someone to play with that understands them, and they’re at an age when they would be going to primary/kinder care anyway. Overall, I cant fault them for their approaches.

  • Meanie

    I just got through watching episode 3, of course without the English subs…

    **Not really spoilers**

    I think they should go ahead and call it Thunder/Joon and Hello Baby with the visiting uncles.

    MIR- WTF!  :[

    Joon and Dayoung 4 life!

    • Katherine

      I get where your coming from. I can understand where Mir was coming from but his method was completely wrong.
      I’m loving the bond/interactions that Joon & Dayoung seem to be forming, I can wait for subs cause I want to know what each child was saying when it came to the boys.

      • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

        I think Mir’s method was fine, but considering he hadn’t bothered to take the time to form a relationship with Dayoung he just did not have the right to even try to discipline her, I’m getting annoyed that him and Seungho just do not try at all with any kid but Lauren.
        I think the thing that is bugging everybody is that they know that if Lauren had been in Dayoungs position he probably would have tried with her for ages and probably would not have even considered moving her from the table. 
        Joon is really impressing me, I feel like he’ll be the one to get Dayoung to really open up.

        • Meanie

          Part of the problem i have with the method Mir used is what you said he hasn’t even tried to develop a relationship with Dayoung, but most important since these children do come from multi-racial backgrounds, Dayoung might not have liked the food that was cooked.  Her mom explained in the letter what she liked to eat.  Now I understand, you not going to cook three separate meals for the children but at least provide or acknowledge some type of cultural variety with the meals. 

          That’s one of the jobs they are supposed to do.

          The method used where you leave the child alone and the child will eat once it gets hungry can work sometimes, but you never..EVER isolate a child from a group setting like that.  Dayoung is smart, most kids are and catch on quick to their surroundings and what’s going on.

          G.O.  I’m sorry but SUCK IT UP!

          I know this sounds bad but it’s like Seungho and MIR are Gollum from LOTR and you can here them say, “my precious” every time they see Lauren.All 3 kids are wonderful and I want to see more interactions between them cause you can see they get along well, until Leo gets ruff..LOL

          • http://twitter.com/Laava90 Lava

            I agree with you, but just wanted to say I think part of the reason they got annoyed is they specially bought steak for Dayoung aswell because her mum said she liked it a lot in the 2nd episode so I don’t think that was the problem =)
            Oh my gosh, Gollum is exactly the perfect way to describe them!! pretty soon Lauren will prob just get creeped out by them lol

          • Meanie

            So it was steak, ok.  Since there wasn’t any english subs I didn’t know what that was. lol

    • Anonymous

      Okay, at first I was really angry at Mir. As mentioned before, his method of discipline was totally fine. I was a picky child and whenever I didn’t eat my mom would hit me. When my little cousins refused to eat, my aunt would punish them by making them stand on a piece of newspaper for a very long time. So yeah, refusing to eat is very disrespectful in Asian culture so what Mir did to Dayoung was actually quite tame.

      However, I also agree that he was using correct method on the wrong child. Seriously, if he used it against Leo or Lauren I’d actually find no fault in that. I thought that he lost his patience too quickly and was being insensitive towards her. Dayoung never meant to be disrespectful and after the subs came out it was because she was feeling cranky and wanted a nap.

      I have to say this though. Mir HAS indeed tried to get along with Dayoung. I don’t know if anyone has noticed it, but he kept trying to get her attention by playing with her hair only to get ignored. With Mir, I think he has troubles understanding a shy girl like Dayoung since he’s so outgoing and his personality is probably at the other end of the spectrum compared to Dayoung’s. So when Dayoung refuses him, he takes it as “she’s not being cooperative”. If you’ve noticed throughout the show, he’s the only one taking the discipline issue seriously. He keeps telling the other members that you shouldn’t always treat children nicely and baby them, hence why he’s so tough on her.

      Also, I don’t think it’s fair to say that he wouldn’t treat Lauren the same way if she did something wrong. Lauren is the least problematic of the three children so until she misbehaves, I’m not going to assume anything.

  • whatsgoingon

    i’ve just finished to watch eps 3 of hello baby…so far..its the most natural hello baby..the boys have 3 children who each of them have diffirent personality…and each blaqies  have different way to teach the baby..this season already show us how to handle a child,the reaction of appa,and the babbies..its the most important thing in variety show like hello baby
    i love how joon strick to leo who always messed up with him,but at the end joon always teaches leo how to behave and try to say sorry…love how thunder conforting leo when leo made a mistakes and get scold from joon..love how joon always become the only one who conforting dayoung when she feel lonely and abandoned..i really love joon and thunder here…and GO little bit,,,GO just too cold to handle dayoung,,a child who shy like dayoung only need a person who can talk with her,hold her,hug her,and give warm interaction..
    about seungho and mir…they only care about Lauren..

  • Jill Tran

    Joon is the truly best apps! He understand kid well and disipline them when they are bad. He gives attention to those who need more attention like Dayoung. Chainring is a good father too so is G.O, but he abadon Dayoung! Mir says Lauren will be his ideal type when she grows up. Is it because she is pretty?! Seungho is good too but he only pays attention to Lauren. It hurts me to see on ep 3 4/4 when they were eatting, Cheondung was holding Leo in is lap, Seungho was holding Lauren on his lap, but why can’t G.O do that to Dayoung? She’s just sitting there along on the floor and when Mir push her away, I cried. He wouldn’t do that to Lauren would he?

  • Femaleballa305

    You cant really get mad at Mir, that is just his way of disciplining.
    I think it was a good method to use.
    But Daeyoung is just to sensitive to handle it.  because she is SPOILED.
    They like Lauren because she does what she is told.
    Also she looks better then Dayoung and she sings, models, and dances.
    Most people are attracted to outgoing people correct?
    Dayoung is so frkkn cute!
    but since Lauren is more outgoing it adds to her beauty,
    So I give them all props for taking a chance.
    But please look at dayoung and everything will be better for all of them :)
    G.O is too…. what can i say…..hmmm… I dont know… but I don’t think he
    can handle Dayoung.
    Joon is WAY better off with her.

    I love Seung ho <3

    • K.N

      Dayoung is NOT spoiled.. She’s SHY. There’s a big difference! You didn’t see her screaming and throwing a tantrum saying she didn’t want to eat, heck you couldn’t even hear her crying.. she was just tearing silently which makes it even more heartbreaking. She didn’t do anything wrong, It’s just that it was her nap time as stated on the letter and if the ‘dads’ have followed her mum’s instructions then that wouldn’t have happened. Mir is my favourite but I still couldn’t defend him this time.. yes his method wasn’t completely wrong but the fact that he never made an effort to acknowledge her in the first place gives him NO right at all to even try and discipline her! I’m seriously impressed with Joon though, never really had an opinion of him before this but he’s definitely working his way into my good list!

      • Mir/Thundere/SeungHo_Lover

         I understand what you are saying but remember Mir was raised with the same discipline that he used on Dayoung,he was only using the knowledge that he had known. Instead of pushing her to the back though i think it would have been better to A) sit her on the couch nicely and say when you would like to join us we would love to have you, or B) the better response gently pick her up give her a hug and go put her down for a nap and feed her later. And I will say this all young kids are spoiled in some way, I sorry that is just how life is I was a kid who was either shy when i didn’t know people well enough like Dayoung or outgoing like Lauren but usually only when I had known the people for awhile. And I was spoiled…. not super spoiled…. but to a degree yes. Mir and Joon do understand one thing though the kids are gunna use tears when they are in trouble but you can’t not be kind to them and calm them down like how G.O. and Thunder have been doing it. I work with kids, the are smart, and they know how to play adults. Now, they need to find a happy medium between how they need to calmly discipline the kids and comfort them but not at the expense of not telling the kid that they did something wrong and need to fix it. I have been called spoiled all my life and it used to bug me until i realized people were right, Being spoiled is not a bad thing, its a part of life that is all. All we really need are parents who will make kids into great people with great personalities.  I actually found that they appa’s need to watch the kids more, for example the blow up shark when Lauren had it Leo pushed lauren very forcefully and no one was really paying attention but as soon as there was screaming it was a  big issue they need to catch that stuff before hand. Also, G.O. can not always be Dayoung hero or protector she must open up to the others, by him always going to her because he feels bad about what happened at the pool is wrong. They are all learning though so this will come in time, its a process. Joon with his mothers help finally figured out that harsh voices and actions are too much for these young kids, and he is already improving so just give it time.