Valentine’ Day just passed — or Singles Awareness Day, depending on your level of cynicism. And while the red hearts everywhere may make one feel the need to be with someone, anyone, just to avoid the stigma of singledom, let it be said that not all love is created equal.

Pass by the infatuations and tepid romances and hold out for something more. Love that burns, that makes you run away together, fight to rejoin each other, that kills you when you’re apart. And when you can’t find that, settle for this playlist that gives you hope that someday, you will have a love that last’s for eternity.