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“Letters From Angels”: A Matter of Korean Pride and Prejudice

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“This year, these days, a lot of stars and angels have played in front of my camera.” Commenting on his annual Letters from Angels exhibit via Twitter, photographer Cho Sei Hyun (@4portrait) shared this message with his followers along with behind-the-scenes photos of the ninth installment to his exhibit, this year themed “gaze”.

From KARA to Big Bang’s G-Dragon and Taeyang, to actress Kim Hye Soo and, former Mayor of Seoul, Se-hoon Oh, Cho has photographed a list of celebrities, as well as important government officials, posing them with orphans whom he’s christened as “angels”. His idea for a campaign, whose purpose would be to raise awareness and promote domestic adoption in South Korea, kindled after being approached by a social worker, and asked to photograph a 100-day-old baby who was up for adoption. Known for having the longest running international adoption program and having sent over 150,000 babies overseas since the end of the Korean War, the South Korean government, has been encouraging domestic adoption since the late 1970’s with moderate success. Raising the question: How can K-pop idols and celebrities end the long running struggle with this issue?

Initially, international adoption prompted as a response to the biracial children or “G.I. babies” (born from Korean women and foreign military personal, mainly Americans) who could not find adoptive parents in Korea. Yet, today, 90% of the adoptees belong to unwed mothers who cannot care for them independently and so are forced to give them up (Dawn. “South Korean Adoptions: Canary in the International Adoption Mine?” Creating a Family. 13 Sept. 2011. Creating a Family. Web. 11 December 2011).

The importance of bloodlines as well as Korea’s Confucian based society, in which there is a strong emphasis on patrilineal lines, has not only lead to mothers abandoning their children but also reluctance to adopt even ‘pure’ Korean children creating only two options: being raised in orphanages or international adoption. In 1990, South Korea became the primary country from which US citizens adopted (making up to 30% of US international adoptions) only dropping by 10%, in the early 2000’s, after a revision of the international and domestic adoption laws, and initiation of foster care programs that encouraged grandparents and other relations to become the child’s caregivers (“International Adoptions Facts.” 2002. The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute. 11 December 2011 <http://www.adoption institute.org/ FactOverview/international.html>).

Now, this brief history, and these statistics provided by the Korean Ministry of Health and Welfare neither convince nor disprove. They have only been included in this article in order for the reader to make their own assessments of the issue at hand, and answer whether K-pop idols’ influence and popularity has enough clout to aid in phasing out international adoption by 2015.

After being recognized as an advanced nation and becoming a member of the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) in 1996, South Korea has argued that it has enough economic wealth to care for their own. Overseer of adoptions at the Ministry of Health, Kim Dong-won, was quoted in the New York Times stating that, “South Korea is the 12th largest economy and…an advanced country, so we would like to rid ourselves of the international stigma or disgrace of being a baby exporting country. It’s embarrassing.”(Onishi, Norimitsu. “Korea Aims to End Stigma of Adoption and Stop ‘Exporting’ Babies”. The New York Times. 2008. The New York Times. 11 December 2011 <http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/09/world/asia/09adopt. htmlpagewa nted= 1&_ r = 2&em >). Whether it is a matter of pride in taking care of one’s own or lowering numbers in order to save face, there exists social prejudice and the stigma against adopting a child without knowledge of its bloodline.

Now, Cho also stated via Twitter that the first “angel” has already turned nine years old. Clearly, this campaign is working but to what extent? Some may argue an “angel” that’s been photographed and held by an idol would have more likelihood of being adopted than a orphan that hasn’t. They may also argue that the fact that celebrities and trendsetters were encouraged to go public about their own adoptions has helped in increasing and leading it to outnumber overseas adoption, for the first time, in 2007 when the Wonder Girls, couple Hong Eun-Hye and Yoo Joon-Sang, model/actor Joo Ji-Hoon, and, drama actress, Kim Jung-eun participated in Cho’s campaign (“Domestic Adoption.” korea4expats. 2011. K4E Consulting. 11 December 2011<http://www.korea4expats. com/article-Adoptions-by-Koreans.html>).  Is this another way for celebrities to seek publicity? It is just another advertisement fueling off an idol’s popularity in order to raise statistics and save face? And, has domestic adoption been disguised as a trend?

No, a child is not a pair of headphones, a skincare line or a water purifier and Cho’s campaign is a charity exhibition with a forOne license as a social enterprise. The increase was mainly due to the adoption quota system introduced in 2007, which was created to boost domestic adoptions while limiting foreign. Although overseas adoptions did drop tremendously from 3,000 in 1990 to 1,000 in 2010 and children placed in foster care increased, domestic adoption remains on average at 1,400 per year and children placed in institutional care has returned to 4,000 per year while international adoption has continued to hover close to 2,000 in the past decade (“South Korea Seeking to Increase Domestic Adoptions.” 27 November 2011. The Asahi Shimbun. 11 December 2011 <http://ajw.asahi.com /article/globe/feature/adoption_opt ion/AJ20111 127190025a>).

Yet, this isn’t a matter of numbers but perception and, in a conservative society emphasizing on conformity, K-pop has the ability to address and get away with certain social taboos, from bi-racial girl group Chocolat to Heechul and Siwon’s onstage kiss, with entertainment as a guise. K-pop may play with an idea, market it as a group’s image concept and allow its audience to, at least, consider it before being severely criticized then changed or dismissed. For example, the recent choreography alteration to HyunA and Hyunseung’s “Troublemaker” after many fans “expressed their discomfort” when viewing the dance’s excessive physical contact.

South Korea is an advanced country, whose citizens have taken great pride in becoming one of the world’s largest economies. Yet, their social development has yet to match their economic. Although social taboos may be addressed on-stage, it is still an act and K-pop can only push the envelope not completely change the perceptions of an entire society in which unwed mothers don’t exist because their families and the government provide menial support, and in which adoption is shunned because of a social system centered on blood relations. Yet, not all is lost. In the US, it took 20 years and a social women’s rights movement but single mothers, in general, have gained social tolerance and acceptance.

In response to his survey on Koreans’ reasons for not adopting, Kim Yu-Kyung stated, “Attitudes towards adopted children are themselves becoming more positive, but in order to translate them into concrete action, we have to further consolidate activities promoting greater awareness and after care.”(“South Korea Seeking to Increase Domestic Adoptions.” 27 November 2011. The Asahi Shimbun. 11 December 2011<http://ajw.asahi.com/article/globe/feature/adoption_opt ion/AJ20111 127190025a>). Prejudices cannot be completely abolished because they are founded on a human emotion: fear. Fear of the unknown or that which is unfamiliar but, through an exhibit that captures a tender moment between a child and an idol, the sense of compassion, humanity and progression can be instilled without words or statistics.

Participating in this year’s exhibit, which is set to run from December 14th- 19th in Seoul, are 2NE1, CN BLUE, BEAST, SNSD’s Tiffany, Nichkhun and, for the third year, Kim Hye Soo.

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  • http://twitter.com/denzelwynter アシュリ (Ashley)

    I want to adopt a Korean baby when I’m older…. T__T It’s sad that the reason for children not being adopted comes from cultural beliefs. I remember an article a few weeks ago where a Korean couple’s baby died because they spent their time looking after a virtual baby. The Korean government doesn’t see that they’re sending babies overseas to people who want to give love. If anything they would be spreading knowledge of the country and its culture by promoting overseas adoption.

  • eboy07

    I dont find the baby`s cute.

    • tegami

      What is it like not having a heart? 

      I bet it must be terrible.

    • Guest

      O____O

  • Anonymous

    Isn’t DBSK Jaejoong adopted too? I thought it was common issue in Asian countries actually, where there are more abandoned babies than people who can care for them.
    And honestly, if using idols can help to create good deeds then why not? they are just like any celebrity ambassadors in the world..

    • http://twitter.com/nowheregirl1993 Fatouma

      Idols will help attract young girls who will coo at the cute babies (and idols) and tell their parents, who will look at it and tell their friends who will tell everyone! It’ll be a cycical effect!

      On a side-note, It’d be heartwarming if Jaejoong (or at least JYJ) was one of the spokespersons for this campaign. :D

  • Anonymous

    The guys’ pictures somehow look way more natural than most of the girls’ ones.

    • Chelle31089

      I noticed that too it’s like girl idols are phtoshopped ogether 2ne1′s pic isn’t bad I like the way bom and minzy are facing each other, Cl’s posing is kind of awkward.

      Aesthetics aside, I don’t think it should matter who adopts a baby as long as the baby is being adopted. At the end of the day no child should live without a family, with a home. The importance of adoption is soley for these children who need a better future.  I don’t care if foreigners adopt or homelandsers do, adoption should not be about pride(Although I get why the issue of national pride would ensue). So in all honesty I don’t care how adoption is advertised as longs these babies find a good home.

  • Oh Ji’s Ho

    I don’t understand why country of adoption is an issue.  What does it matter which country adoptive parents are from if the child is going to a good and loving home?  I’ve never once thought less of Korea or that it is ‘embarassing’ for their children to be adopted internationally, I’ve actually had the opposite thought and would like to adopt from Korea if I ever have a chance.  I think it is more embarassing that they are working toward ceasing international adoptions.  I am not sure which other countries bar international adoptions, but when the need for good adoptive homes is not met within a country, then why not be open to other people from foreign countries adopting their children – not just for Korea, but all countries. As long as it is a safe, happy environment children should be able to go to it. The real issue here seems to be the treatment of unwed/single mothers in Korea.  I’ve read articles on how they are viewed and treated and it is not very well to say the least.  There may have been some slight improvements recently, but there still seems to be some ways to go.  According to the article above, 90% of children waiting to be adopted are from single mothers?  That is a alarming statistic and one that could be rectified with a few societal changes; therefore, taking care of the majority of children needing to be adopted.  I understand that societal beliefs place a lot of emphasis on family bloodlines and the like, but when those beliefs come at the expense of innocent children then there is a problem. 

  • whatthefrell

    Enjoyed the article; well-written, well-referenced, well-done.
    A broad and well-rounded study of the issue as it relates to
    Korean culture and historical, traditional, familial and popular leanings.
    I personally would have liked to have read more on the
    racial/bi-racial aspects of adoptions, though that may have
    already been covered in an earlier article.

    I thought all the pictures were really sweet; and, I agree with ‘lewhuiying’ in that the guys photographs do appear to be much more natural and genuinely sweeter than the girls — though all the pictures are great.Maybe the girls are a little terrified because for most it will happen for real some day — they are going to actually birth them some babies!As for ‘eboy07′ not finding the babies cute… really.2NE1 and B2ST’s are my favorites!

  • ggoma

    Korean single mothers have not gained respect or rights. Or else abortions would stop much more and babies wouldn’t be left for adoption. Thing is, the stigma still exists. It is still strong. Just because the subject is being discussed more doesn’t mean anything has changed. Few programs exist to help women who are pregnant and many Korean men force their girlfriends into abortions or women themselves feel helpless to take care of them and feel they only basically have abortion as an issue – though some do indeed carry through to term and place babies – most hide their pregnancies. That is not the way to live and honestly, most Koreans still think exactly the same as before. It’s terribly sad.

    And before anyone thinks that Americans are so much better – single women are treated like dirt here as well. They are labeled and stared at and judged constantly.

    • agedvanilla

      like that actress that relived she was a single mother.  it was a big deal. i was so shocked. 

    • Lada

      My mother single handedly raised my older half sister for most of her life, without welfare (b/c back in the 70s it wasn’t well taken care of) & has never told me about being treated like “dirt” because of it. I’ve seen many single mothers that are treated fairly. But my experience could just be different from yours.

      • ggoma

        Was your mom divorced or widowed? This is talking about unwed single moms here. Most are young(er). I think there is definitely a stereotype about single moms now that may now have existed previously when it was less “talked about”.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_CI2NGOMLBNCWH5U4MKF57VJOHY Swaggerr

    Great article, Maddie.

  • Anonymous

    Interesting article. Thank you. “their social development has yet to match their economic” – that´s exactly how I mostly feel about Korea (based on my limited knowledge)

    TBH, when issues like this come to light I´m glad I´m living where I´m living (the Central Europe). It´s not a perfect place of course, there´s racism, prejudice and criminality as well but people are generally treated equally. Just today I read an article that 41% of kids are born out of wedlock, so there are many single-parent families or not-married parents families and nobody really cares. I don´t recall any incident from my childhood when kids were treated differently because of being from one-parent family (single or divorced). It was little different if their parents were in jail or something but it´s a little different case.

  • agedvanilla

    thank god.  prevent woody allen and more creeps like him from adopting from korea hopefully.  get some good couples or single parents that would be loving to these kids. 

  • Bervalvic

    Those babies are beautiful

  • Anonymous

    Looks like government propaganda for reproduction.

  • Anonymous

    Personally, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with international adoption or using idols to promote domestic adoption, as long as these babies find safe homes and loving families to care for them.

    With that said, if South Korea does not want to be known as a “baby exporting country,” then they need to address the reasons *why* these babies are given up for adoption in the first place. For example, the article says, “90% of the adoptees belong to unwed mothers who cannot care for them independently and so are forced to give them up.” If this is true, then the more effective solution to adoption would be to provide aid and support to those mothers so they can raise their children on their own. While I acknowledge SK’s roots in Confucianism, at some point, they need to realize their beliefs are doing them more harm than good.

  • http://twitter.com/XiahJunsubias Junsu Love

    My husband and I are planning to adopt children eventually (after having a kid or two biologically), one from my home country of Nigeria and one from China, India or Korea. I was raised in a family that emphasizes on adoption and taking care of the less fortunate. None of my grandparents are in nursing homes (fortunately, they are still healthy enough not to need to go to a home for ill seniors), I have two siblings, one older and one younger who were adopted. I have tons of cousins, nieces and nephews who were adopted. All the adoptees are from different parts of the world. My husband who’s American also comes from a family that has adoptees. It’s kind of a tradition. At most, we may foster (there are so many children in the system here in AZ, it’s heartbreaking). There are so many less fortunate people in the world, especially, orphans and I admire those who can open their homes and hearts to them.

  • Anonymous

    All I care from this: Park. Shi. Hoo. You didn’t put up his picture here. But he is one cutest daddy ever. Haha.

    Anyway, I really really like your article. I wish I can comment more in this issue but I’m very clueless about this whole adoption thing in SK before I read your article. Thanks for enlighting me! ^^

    But strangely, as a baby, I wouldn’t want my naked pictures spread everywhere with some random guys touching me. Okay, this is the dumbest comment ever, I gotta go. xD